What can I do if I am being stalked?

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  • If you feel that you are in imminent danger, trust your instincts and do what makes you feel safe.  Consider going to a safe location such as a police station. Call 911 if you fear for your immediate safety.
  • Know that you are not to blame for the stalker’s behavior.
  • Call your local domestic violence or sexual assault program to get support and hear about options and resources.  Call the National Stalking Resource Center for support (1-800-FYI-CALL).
  • Consider getting a protection order to keep the stalker away from you.  Visit Legal section for more information.
  • Keep a log of the stalking incidences to show the pattern of events. Write down every incident that happens including all the times, dates and other information.
  • Keep videotapes, answering machine or voicemail messages, photos of property damage, emails and letters you receive.
  • Know that technology can be used to track you. 
  • Tell important people about the stalking problem including the police, your employer, and family, friends and neighbors.